He Cheated

He Cheated

Hi Jay,  I don’t know where to begin.  So much has happened in such a short time, or perhaps it’s been happening all along.  Here’s my issue.   I found out that by husband has been having an affair.  He doesn’t know that I know.  I’ve known for a few days now.  I love...
My Finances are Dry

My Finances are Dry

Hi Jay, I am 25 years old and I have always lived paycheck to paycheck.  I feel like every day is a struggle just to make it.  I don’t make much, but I make enough to live on, even still, my finances are dry.  I know that a lot of people live paycheck to paycheck so...
Loving You Is Like a Battle

Loving You Is Like a Battle

Hi Jay, My boyfriend and I argue all the time, I mean all the time!  We rarely have peaceful moments with each other.  I don’t know what the issue is.  I know that he cheated one time in the past but I thought we managed to get past that.  We don’t live together...
When Church Hurts

When Church Hurts

        Hi Jay, I have been a part of this church for about 9 years. In our ministry, we do a lot of revivals and outreach services. We are a close knit small ministry of about maybe 15 or so people. One day we had a special service and we had to...
Your Gift Will Make Room

Your Gift Will Make Room

Hi Jay, A few years ago, I was laid off from a good paying job.  This was during the recession.  Ever since then, I have felt like I was lost and it has been a real struggle trying to find a career that I enjoy.  I have been able to get work at different places but...
It’s Late But Not Too Late for Compromise

It’s Late But Not Too Late for Compromise

Hi Jay, Lately I am starting to get frustrated with the double standards in my marriage.  There are many things that he does that he is not okay with me doing the same.  For example, I recently had some friends over to visit.  When 9 o’clock came rolling around...