I Make Myself Too Available

I Make Myself Too Available

Hi Jay, Thank you for making this space for us gay people. Now, how do I stop making myself so available? What I mean is every time I find a guy I’m interested in, I fall head over heels for them, and then it’s like I become their love slave. I need to stop that...
35 and Waiting on Love

35 and Waiting on Love

Hi Jay! I am a 35 year old woman who has yet to find a man to marry. I am not getting any younger obviously. Sometimes it bothers me that I am still not having the type of life I thought I’d have at this age. I have everything else, the house, the car, great friends,...
Dilemma

Dilemma

Hi Jay, I have a dilemma. I met this awesome guy and we have been getting to know each other as friends. His conversation is one of a kind. I feel like he is the perfect person for me but there is one thing: he is in a relationship. He doesn’t come on to me or...
How to Rebuild Credit

How to Rebuild Credit

Having good credit is a must-have to manage an easy financial lifestyle. If you do not have good credit, obtaining financing for the simplest things can be problematic. Some feel they don’t need credit, but access to credit can prove invaluable in our...