Is it Hate or Being “Real”

        Hi Jay, How should I respond to someone who is never supportive of my dreams and visions?  I have a friend who can be so pessimistic.  If I tell her I want to lose weight, she will begin to point out how much of a challenge it is to do it. ...
Where is My Life Going?

Where is My Life Going?

  Hi Jay, My life seems so out of order.  It is as if I don’t know where I fit.  Sometimes I feel like I am all over the place like it’s scattered.  I’ve been looking into doing a different career but nothing appealing catches my eye.  My current job...
Coping With a Guilty Heart

Coping With a Guilty Heart

There will come moments in your life where you will sincerely feel in your spirit how you have sinned against God or have done wrong in the eyesight of the Lord.  Out of this feeling comes a feeling of guilt, shame, and conviction.  Guilt and shame are relatively...

Unwavering Faith

Many people constantly find that they are standing in need for some things to change and happen for them that just seems like they cannot be done.  No doubt we have experienced and some of us are experiencing circumstances and trials and situations where we are...
Love Your Spirit

Love Your Spirit

This is an excerpt from Chapter 6 I Love Who I Am from Turning 30, 40, 50… Love Your Spirit “The spirit of a man is the source of his power.” I prepared a biblical studies lesson on this concept of loving yourself. In that study, I discovered just how...